After a quick little hiatus, the latest episode of Martini Mondays is back—and it’s all about the music. Because let’s be real: if the playlist is off, the party is off.
This week, the wedding music debate takes center stage: DJ vs. Band. It’s a hot topic with some major opinions—and even hotter takes.
The Great Music Debate: DJ or Band?
Some people swear by DJs—because let’s face it, sometimes you just want Beyoncé to sound like Beyoncé. With a DJ, you get the real deal, every beat as it’s meant to be. No covers, no improvisation—just a clean, curated playlist.
But then… there’s the magic of a live band. The presence, the energy, the vibe—it’s unmatched when done right. A live band can completely transform a space. Of course, if they’re bad… it’s also painfully obvious (cue awkward silence and an empty dance floor).
Tips from the Trenches:
If you’re leaning toward live music, do your homework. Research who’s playing, watch videos, ask for referrals, and trust your gut. And remember: the vibe at someone else’s wedding might not reflect the band’s full potential—they play what the couple wants, not necessarily what the crowd loves.
The Budget Reality
Let’s not sugarcoat it: DJs are generally more budget-friendly. They’re getting more elevated too, with upgraded setups that look polished and professional—not just a folding table with some cables. You can even go hybrid with a DJ + live musician (think drummer or electric violinist). It’s the best of both worlds—and perfect for couples wanting a touch of glam without the full price tag.
Do You Really Need Music Everywhere?
Yes. Yes, you do.
From your walk down the aisle to cocktail hour to the last song of the night, music matters. It sets the tone, keeps the energy flowing, and honestly, saves your guests from awkward small talk in dead silence.
- Ceremony: Whether it’s a string quartet, an organist, or a pre-recorded playlist, don’t skimp on this moment.
- Cocktail Hour: Want to wow your guests right away? Think outside the box. Electric violinists, harpists, live acoustic sets—it’s the perfect time to make an impression.
- Dinner: Keep it low and lovely. Think Frank Sinatra, Michael Bublé, or some mellow covers—please don’t blast club hits during salad service.
Don’t Forget Your Audience
Music isn’t just about your taste—it’s about the entire room. That means a mix of oldies, current hits, a little country, a little crooner, and maybe even an ethnic set (but keep it balanced, please). The goal? Keep everyone engaged—from your 20-year-old cousin to your 80-year-old grandma.
Signature Sip of the Week: Pineapple Pop Music
To go along with all that music chatter, this week’s featured martini is the Pineapple Pop Music—a pineapple and champagne martini that’s as fun and flirty as your reception playlist. It’s light, bubbly, and basically made to be your signature wedding cocktail.
Final Thoughts:
Whatever route you take—live vocals or a killer playlist—the key is making sure your guests feel the beat and want to stay on the dance floor. A pretty venue and expensive menu won’t save a dull party. But good music? That’s the stuff people remember.
Catch the full episode on Spotify (just search Martini Mondays with Chrissy) and don’t forget to tag your wedding dance floor moments @styling_by_ace. And hey, if you’re sipping something fun while wedding planning—send it our way.
See you next Monday for another round.
Kisses + Cheers, Alexandra
Pineapple Pop Music Martini
A sparkling sip that brings the party vibes—sweet, smooth, and ready to hit the high notes.
Ingredients:
- 3 oz pineapple juice
- 1 oz vodka
- 3 oz champagne or sparkling wine
- Garnish: Pineapple slice (because we’re classy like that)
Directions:
- Fill a shaker with ice and add the pineapple juice and vodka.
- Shake well and strain into a chilled martini glass.
- Top with champagne or sparkling wine.
- Garnish with a pineapple slice and cue your favorite wedding playlist.
Serving Vibe:
Perfect for cocktail hour, bridal brunches, or playlist planning sessions with your crew.
