Alright, girlfriend, let’s talk about wedding guest fashion. You got the invite (yay!), now comes the big question—what are you wearing?! Because let’s be real, showing up in the wrong outfit is basically a crime in the world of wedding fashion. Too casual? Yikes. Too over-the-top? Sweetie, it’s not your wedding. Accidentally wear white? We need to have a serious talk.
As your go-to stylist (yes, I’m here for everyone, not just brides!), I’ve got you covered. Whether you’re the Mother of the Bride, the Glamma of the Groom, the Maid of Honor, or just a guest who wants to slay without stealing the spotlight, Styling by ACE is here to make sure you look just right for any wedding scenario.
So let’s break it down: what to wear, what NOT to wear, and how to master wedding guest fashion like the stylish icon you are.
Rule #1: Thou Shalt Not Wear White (or Anything Too Close to It)
I don’t care if it’s ivory, champagne, eggshell, or a suspiciously light blush—if it could be mistaken for bridal, it’s a hard no. The only person who should be in white is the one saying, “I do.” (And if the bride is not in white, you still don’t wear white. Just don’t do it, babe.)
Want a light, airy look? Go for pastels, florals, or soft jewel tones. Just not…bridal adjacent.
Rule #2: Dress for the Occasion, Not Your Mood
Listen, I get it—you love your sequin mini dress. But if the wedding is in a garden at noon, you might want to rethink. The key is to match your outfit to the vibe of the wedding. Here’s a quick cheat sheet:
🌊 Beach Wedding: Flowy maxi dresses, breezy fabrics, and light colors are your best friend. Sand-friendly shoes (or chic barefoot sandals) are a must. Avoid stilettos unless you enjoy sinking into the sand like quicksand.
🌿 Garden Wedding: Think romantic florals, soft pastels, and lightweight fabrics. Heels work if the ground isn’t soft (pro tip: wedges or block heels are a lifesaver for grass).
🏛 Formal/Black Tie Wedding: Bring on the glam! Long gowns, sophisticated cocktail dresses, and even a well-tailored jumpsuit work. Fabrics like satin, silk, and velvet are winners. And yes, you can wear black—it’s chic, not a funeral.
🍽 Cocktail Wedding: Chic midi dresses, sleek jumpsuits, or dressy separates. A little sparkle? Yes. A full-blown ballgown? Not the vibe.
🎪 Rustic/Barn Wedding: Flowy dresses, cute boots (if the vibe allows), and effortless styling. Nothing too stiff or formal—you don’t want to be the only one tripping in your train while everyone else is comfortable.
Rule #3: If You Have to Ask, “Is This Too Much?”… It Probably Is
Weddings are about the couple, not your chance to debut your Met Gala look. If your dress screams “look at me” more than “celebratory guest,” you might want to tone it down. This includes:
🚫 Anything that looks like a prom dress from 2004 (Yes…the year I graduated).
🚫 Anything that makes you look more bridal than the bride.
🚫 Anything with a dangerously high slit. (A leg pop? Sure. A full Angelina Jolie moment at a church wedding? Maybe not.)
A little glam is always a yes, but let’s keep it in the “elevated guest” category, not “surprise backup dancer at a Vegas show.”
Rule #4: Comfort & Confidence Are Key
If you can’t breathe, walk, or sit comfortably, it’s not the right outfit. You want to be able to eat, dance, and enjoy the night without constantly adjusting your dress. Fashion and function can coexist, I promise.
And let’s not forget undergarments—yes, shapewear is great if it makes you feel amazing, but if it’s making you miserable, ditch it. Confidence is the real secret weapon.
Rule #5: Accessories Make or Break the Look
The right bag, shoes, and jewelry can take your look from meh to model-off-duty-at-a-wedding.
👠 Shoes: Wear something cute but walkable. If you can’t last 10 minutes without wincing, bring a backup pair. (This is why styling sessions with me include a full accessory plan—so you’re chic and comfy.)
👜 Bag: Clutch or mini bag only. This is not the time for your everyday tote filled with receipts and random snacks.
💎 Jewelry: Statement earrings or a bold bracelet can be the perfect touch, but if your dress is already doing the most, keep it minimal.
Bonus Rule: If You Need Help, Call Me
Here’s the best part—Styling by ACE isn’t just for brides. If you need a styling session to nail your wedding guest look (or any other event, TBH), I’ve got you. From MOBs to wedding guests, date nights to everyday fashion, I’m here to make sure you look and feel amazing.
So, whether you need:
✔️ A full outfit plan for an upcoming wedding
✔️ Help choosing accessories that actually work
✔️ A wardrobe refresh so you always have the right thing to wear
I’m just a styling session away. Because looking like that guest—the one who’s effortlessly chic, appropriate, and never cringeworthy—should be easy, not stressful.
Now go forth and slay that wedding guest look—just not in white. 😉
Cheers + Kisses,
Alexandra | Styling by ACE
